tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post5361701109127693905..comments2023-10-21T05:56:15.949-06:00Comments on Utah Savage: Everything ChangesUtah Savagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16385093247915560752noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-63346664130284702422009-10-24T22:34:09.050-06:002009-10-24T22:34:09.050-06:00RG's right, that was a tough read and I know o...RG's right, that was a tough read and I know of nothing to say that will make it all better but Fran is is right too. It's easier to say au revoir til you meet again. It may even be in this life. Much love to you.susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16747450215034568033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-89517605285492011102009-10-24T14:09:32.019-06:002009-10-24T14:09:32.019-06:00And you know, after giving it more thought, it'...And you know, after giving it more thought, it's good that she's bringing her medical records with her.... she may seek out a new age medico that has a treatment pathway that works for her. <br />I know, it's a long shot.... but I have seen people turn things around doing chinese herbals & alternative stuff, radical diet changes. <br /><br />If anything, doing something she believes in will be good for her soul.Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14198689517878201943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-12359512132657290502009-10-24T13:04:33.718-06:002009-10-24T13:04:33.718-06:00I spent yesterday trying to fight off depression. ...I spent yesterday trying to fight off depression. Today, I'm trying not to think. Twitter helps with that. I'm doing a lot of retweeting, that way I don't have to say much, just keeps me occupied. I could clean my filthy house, that that would be way to smart a thing to do.<br /><br />Thank you all for your kindness and generosity. You are indeed good friends.Utah Savagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16385093247915560752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-41848552583405100332009-10-24T09:16:34.459-06:002009-10-24T09:16:34.459-06:00Dear Utah,
I am sorry for your friend Z, and that...Dear Utah,<br /><br />I am sorry for your friend Z, and that Ms. M doesn't get it...<br /><br /> I am with you, I have never left...and will continue to lurk here..... I feel your pain and anger and sorrow.... <br /><br />I wish I could make it all go away.... or that I could help in some little significant way...but it just all sucks sometimes....<br /><br />Peace be with you and Z....giggleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13173558660571799919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-88528214655798742642009-10-24T06:38:26.523-06:002009-10-24T06:38:26.523-06:00sometimes when i'm angry about one thing it co...sometimes when i'm angry about one thing it comes out as angry about other things that normally wouldn't make me angry.... being angry is very painful so i try to do it as little as possible.<br /><br />friends are precious... the ones that are dying and the ones that are living....Ghost Dansinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15216056025402469120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-89242998379113518762009-10-23T23:01:28.238-06:002009-10-23T23:01:28.238-06:00Hi Dear~ this was gonna be a rough day, no matter ...Hi Dear~ this was gonna be a rough day, no matter what. Since the key thing has started to surface do yourself a favor - make a spare set or 2 & a few extra for the big house key losing girl. <br />That will be one less worry for other times ~ and she will not walk off with your keys again. <br /><br />I know this was a rough day, saying goodbye without saying goodbye. Maybe that's her Zen. <br />A goodbye would be too hard to do. <br /> <br />A farewell for now, off on a new journey was easier for her to handle. <br />She is both down to earth & wise.<br />You two are so close, she never wants to say goodbye.Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14198689517878201943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-30111014396232526422009-10-23T20:53:37.069-06:002009-10-23T20:53:37.069-06:00HI UTAH-
I just stopped back to say "hi"...HI UTAH-<br /><br />I just stopped back to say "hi" - I feel so sad for all you are facing. I think you are an amazing friend to 'Z' and to your dogs and whatever other life that surrounds you. You are life-giving.<br /><br />Love you<br />Gail<br />peace......Gailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337675996256691215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-70730394833862802482009-10-23T18:52:08.366-06:002009-10-23T18:52:08.366-06:00Oh, Utah, I'm so sorry.
Words are such a limi...Oh, Utah, I'm so sorry.<br /><br />Words are such a limited medium, no depth, no color, no motion, and I have none to offer to give you any support.<br /><br />You are a good friend, and Z knows that. Somethings transcend mortality: pets (I'm convinced I will get to see my dogs again in the afterlife, or at least at the burst at the end), and deep friendships.<br /><br />Much love your way,<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />TengrainTengrainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171857054812345617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-33210798898408860912009-10-23T18:40:32.448-06:002009-10-23T18:40:32.448-06:00I can't even imagine knowing that I would neve...I can't even imagine knowing that I would never see my best friend again.<br />I don't know what to say. <br />I'm so very sorry. <br /><br />((Hugs))<br />LauraLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09226811839348899360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-64081569040907255292009-10-23T15:49:29.729-06:002009-10-23T15:49:29.729-06:00Randal, Gail, Anita you have all made me cry. I c...Randal, Gail, Anita you have all made me cry. I called the White House this morning and cried. Z didn't have insurance until she turned 65 and got Medicare. Her cancer was stage 3 when it was finally diagnosed on my 65th birthday, June 12th. She'd been sick for years. It doesn't take much to make me cry today. But I know there is more crying to come.Utah Savagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16385093247915560752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-8575650411063752502009-10-23T10:57:00.955-06:002009-10-23T10:57:00.955-06:00Utah, I so viscerally feel the intensity of your s...Utah, I so viscerally feel the intensity of your sadness and your sense of helplessness. I truly wish there was something I could do or say to make it all better. If I were with you I'd give you a big hug. But I cannot. But please know I am thinking of you in this terrible time and hoping you understand that you are not truly alone.anitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11950712894174167863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-68411387903633078182009-10-23T09:12:21.039-06:002009-10-23T09:12:21.039-06:00Hi Utah-
this is a complicated time - I feel deep...Hi Utah-<br /><br />this is a complicated time - I feel deeply your fear, loss, anger and despair. Perhaps though, your anger over the keys, well, perhaps it is redirected from a bigger place, ya know?<br />I am so so sorry for all you are losing....<br />Love and........<br />Gail<br />peace.....Gailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337675996256691215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954604416278665691.post-68804034980789924912009-10-23T09:09:25.555-06:002009-10-23T09:09:25.555-06:00Well, that was a rough read. Your tag of 'the ...Well, that was a rough read. Your tag of 'the human condition' about sums it up.Randal Graveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08728992897551848531noreply@blogger.com