Thursday, November 19, 2009

I'm Writing an Obituary Today

9 comments:

Fran said...

I'm sure this is bittersweet- you will miss your friend so much it hurts your heart, On the other hand, her struggle with cancer is over- and she went on her terms, which I think is the optimal exit strategy, if given the opportunity.
I hope you can think of happy memories to write about, celebrating the good times of her life, her passion and joy- including your near & dear friendship.
Amidst the tears & ink, remember the joy.

Unknown said...

I'm so very sorry you've lost your dear friend.

Utah Savage said...

Fran, that's very good advise. I will do my very best to give Zelita's family and friends the Zelita we all loved and all knew and experienced as the talented, loving, vibrent person I remember. She was a multi-talented woman with children and grandchildren, a religious community, so many friends near and in far flung places.

Elizabeth, thank you. I'm sorry too, but I'm glad she's no longer suffering. Sometimes death is a good thing. And she was where she wanted to be when she died.

Anonymous said...

I recently had to write my younger brother's obituary. It was both a difficult task and an oddly joyous one. I was happy to present the "him" I loved for public consumption. I hope you find some catharsis in writing Z's as well. xo

Laura said...

Beautiful song. :)
If anyone can write a beautiful tribute to their friend, it's you.

Thinking of you...

((hugs))
Laura

The Peach Tart said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know from your writing, how much she meant to you.

Randal Graves said...

What Fran said.

Sherry Pasquarello said...

i'm very sorry for your pain.

themom said...

Sorry to bother you, I am TheDaughter from Attentive Aphorist's blog. My mom wanted you to know what has been happening with her so if you could ck out her blog I lefta brief description of what is going on and I also keep updating her facebook if you get a chance. Thanks